I read this great article written by Drew Sygit in Bloomfield, Michigan. I liked it so much that I felt compelled to forward it to you. I hope you enjoy it as well. I would’ve only changed one thing on this article, the title. I would’ve probably titled it, “Foreclosure, Short Sale & Bankruptcy: a New Beginning, not the End.”
Please see my “Final Note” at the conclusion of this article:
Foreclosure & Bankruptcy: a new Beginning, not the End
It’s not how many times you get knocked down, it’s how many times you get back up. Along the way don’t forget what’s really important – Family, Friends & Life.
TROY, MI – With pretty much everything I do revolving around real estate & lending, I get exposed to a lot of other people’s financial challenges related to the housing crisis. It’s a rare day that I don’t talk to someone in danger of losing their home.

Too many of these people equate losing their home to foreclosure or having to file bankruptcy with failure. For many, this feeling of being a failure can have a devastating affect on their mental well-being, health and relationships.
We all need to get a grip, swallow some pride and lose our egos. Failing at something is not the end of the world.
Remember when you were a kid learning to ride a bike? For most of us, learning meant a lot of falls and crashes, some of them nasty enough for stitches or casts. But most of us got back up, dusted ourselves off and kept at it until we succeeded.
I’ve got a T-shirt I picked up on a ski trip that says, “If you’re not falling, you’re not skiing hard enough!” There’s a lot of truth to that statement. In fact to make it more accurate about life in general we could alter it a bit to, “If you’re not failing, you’re not trying hard enough.”
I went to an entrepreneurial seminar several years ago, where the speaker was from California. He urged the audience to follow their dreams, take chances and not be afraid of failing. He pointed out that few entrepreneurs succeed with their first ventures and jokingly said, “if you haven’t filed bankruptcy, then you’re not trying hard enough.”
Now none of this should be taken out of context and used to justify irresponsible behavior. If you try your hardest to succeed and still fail, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Especially since our current economic situation has foreclosures, personal bankruptcies and unemployment at their highest since the Great Depression.
Keep in mind also, that many successful business people failed in their first endeavors, but later went on to great success. Here’s a list of some rather successful people who have filed bankruptcy:
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